Feel the fear and do it anyway

Imagine, you are in a public place and you are the center of attraction. You are very calm and confidence in that situation. Imagine, you are exposing your thoughts and feelings in a comfortable way. Each and every man and woman are trying to talk with you. How would that feel?Very good.....isn't it?Let me give you very simple tricks that will change your life.

But the question is, how would we be able to do this?What is the secret to become that type of person. The truth is that, "there is no secret".And there is no shortcut to be like this. I know there are some people with advantages who can do this naturally. If you are not that type of person then there is no secret to change your life dramatically.But, there are always hopes.

If you want to be able to feel comfortable in social situations then the wall that separates you from your goal is the wall of fear. And that wall becomes harder when you ignore the situation you fear about.

Our target is to break the wall.I am going to tell you some simple but very effective trick.If you use it, your fear will be gone.If you continue practicing it, you life will be changed.

The tricks are-

1. Make a positive attitude
2. Face the fear

1.How to make a positive attitude? Here is a very effective way. I got it from the book "FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY". What you need is a tape recorder. Record some motivational quote in it such as "Day by day I am becoming brave" , "I can easily face any kind of social situation" or "A peaceful sea never made a skillful mariner" and so on. Whenever you are alone hear those audios. Buy some motivational books. Read them regularly. Always focus your concentration on those positive quotes. You can use the product"THINK RIGHT NOW" for this purpose. This is very helpful for this purpose.

You should not hear to your negative thoughts. Whenever those thoughts come to your mind dont try to remove them with force. Just concentrate on the positive thoughts,ideas or quotes. If you keep practicing this, may be within 1 week your mentality will be changed and you will think positively.


2.Now find out the things you feel fear to face. Face the situation.Everytime you face the situation the wall of fear will be weaker. And after repeating some times the fear will be broken.
In some cases, the fear will be gone in the first time!This may sound very simple. But this is the most effective method. There is no shortcut.

If you practice those two processes within one month your whole life would be changed. For this you have to take huge action. But the result will be amazing. If you dont understand my article read the book of "SUSAN JEFFER" named "FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY".

After achieving your goals, continue the process. It is very important. Make it a daily habit.

Take Care.